Tuesday 17 December 2013

Maman visits Saint Anthony's Home

Hey hey hey!

So so so sorry I have been so quiet over the past two weeks. My mum came to visit me for 14 days J We wanted to make most of our time together so we did lots including a three days safari and three days in Durban... Before I tell you all about it, I just wanted to say a massive THANK YOU to everyone who helped/contributed to the raffle organised by my mother. Together you managed to raise an extraordinary £2000 which comes to over R30.000!!! The director, Mbongiseni Nzuza was completely speechless when he received the email from Maman explaining what she had done and how much she managed to raise. I would like to thank my mum as well as all of those who bought tickets, sold tickets as well as those who donated gifts. You cannot believe how much this means to the orphanage. The money will be put towards repainting the whole orphanage as the paint is cracking and peeling in most rooms. I will make sure to put pictures up of the freshly repainted rooms as soon as they have been done.

So Maman landed in Johannesburg Airport on the 26th of November. I was sooo excited! We hadn’t seen each other in three months which is longest we have ever been apart so you can imagine how emotional we both were when we saw each other! We then headed back to Blaauwbosch where the children were also very excited about meeting my mum. When we arrived, Auntie Phumie had cooked us a huge meal including beef stew, chicken, rice, butternut squash mash, cabbage and beetroot! It was delicious as always. After unpacking, Phumzile (Senior Child and Youth Care Worker) showed Maman around the different cottages during which she met most of the Care Workers as well as all the toddlers. They gave her a very warm welcome and all wanted to be picked up by her... too cute! That evening all 92 children welcomed her in their own way through traditional dance and song, which they also did for me when I first arrived at the Home.

Although Maman only spent four days at the Home, she was very quickly involved in many things such as bathing the toddlers, driving to the local primary school in a 20 year old buggy, fitting over 30 children in the trunk of the car and driving them back to the Home, giving advice to those children leaving the Home for good and learning some dance moves from the Nompilo (one of the teenage girls!). There were a total of 5 girls from the Masakhane cottage leaving therefore I thought it would be a good idea to buy them all a Christmas present. This was also my way of saying thank you to them for making me feel so so welcome in their cottage and involving me in everything they did. I printed them eac h two photos and also gave them all a nail varnish because they absolutely love doing their nails J Maman and I left for our road trip on Saturday 30th November and the children were brought to their foster families/relatives the following Monday and Tuesday which meant we unfortunately had to say our goodbyes. I got very emotional as I was very close to three out of the five Masakhane girls that were leaving. It is very unlikely I will see them again...




Maman and Basilo

Maman and the older girls playing volleyball

Lots of cuddles from the Mandela toddlers


Pyjama Party! #1

Pyjama Party! #2


Kwanele and Luyanda with the new T-shirts Maman bought them



After an emotional departure, we headed for the Springbok Lodge in the Nambiti Game Reserve (www.thespringboklodge.co.za). It is home to the Big 5 (rhino, buffalo, lion, leopard and elephant) and is situated just 1.5 hours from the Saint Anthony’s by car. Our lodge was very different to the other 5 lodges situated in the Game Reserve in that the accommodation are tents rather than an actual lodge. Maman and I were very intrigued however we were both pleasantly surprised! The tents were very big, elevated and reinforced with a wooden frame, had a lovely big bath as well as an outdoor shower.

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When we arrived at the lodge, we were greeted with a glass of homemade lemonade and some refreshing cold towels. We enjoyed a light lunch before being shown to our “tents”. Because the weather was so beautifully hot, Maman and I got changed into something a little lighter for our first game drive which was taking place at 4pm... What a mistake that was. As soon as we drove away from the lodge, the weather turned! The sky was completely grey, it was windy and very cold. I looked completely ridiculous in my mini denim shorts and tank top – it was clear to everyone else in the 4x4 that this was very new to me and Maman. Luckily the car was equipped with fleece lined ponchos! They are so cosy, we lived in them for most of our stay as we both packed for the wrong season... Nightmare! Although we were very unlucky in terms of the weather for most of our stay, we were very lucky in terms of the animals we saw. On our first ever game drive, we saw lions, a black rhino and buffalos all within a few metres of each other... absolutely incredible! Over the whole three days we were there, we say 4 out of the 5 Big Five as well as lots of other mammals including kudus, giraffes, zebras, wildebeests, serval, jackals etc.  Every day we had two game drives (one at 5:30 am and one at 4 pm) all of which included a short break in a beautiful spot accompanied by a hot drink and homemade muffins in the morning or nibbles and a cold alcoholic beverage in the evening. Maman and I also went to a Cheetah Breeding Centre where we had the chance to find out more about these beautiful creatures and also have a little cuddle with them! The sanctuary also has other wildcats such as servals, a leopard and a wild cat. This place is also the home to a meerkat called Zulu! Half of his tail was unfortunately burnt in a fire, which killed the rest of his clan members. If released back into the wild, he wouldn’t be accepted into another clan, meaning he would be alone and so never survive. The sanctuary is his new family now J






 












As well as seeing some truly beautiful animals, we also met some lovely people. As Nambiti isn’t very well known overseas, most of those who come to the reserve are locals. One couple Maman and I got to know very well was Vicky and Bernd. They arrived and left on the same day as us and we also had the same ranger (Jonathan) which meant we spent a lot of time together. They both live in Durban and have been coming to Springbok every 4 months for the past three years which means they know the staff and rangers very well! It was also Vicky’s birthday on our last day at the lodge which meant we had a little celebration in the evening with Jonathan and another one of the other rangers called Mike. The fact rangers were always around and allowed to socialise with the guests was also something Maman and I really liked about the whole experience. Now I just can’t wait to go on my next game drives but this time in Kruger. I will however be coming back to Nambiti game reserve in February 2014 with my friend Sarah when she comes to visit  Saint Anthony’s for two weeks. 

(Bernd, Vicky, Rodwin, Jonathan, myself and Pam)

After three unforgettable days at the Springbok lodge, we made our way to Durban! Our lovely boutique hotel (www.stjamesonvenice.co.za) was situated in Morningside. We were lucky to have just enough sunshine on our first day to do a bike ride along the beach promenade! It was so nice to have some sun rather than rain but we both got very very burnt!! As well as going to the beach, we visited Ushaka Marine (a big aquarium with animal shows), the Moses Mabhida Stadium which was built for the 2010 World Cup and did a bit of retail therapy in Durban North. On one evening, we also met up with Vicky and Bernd for dinner in one of the best hotels in Durban called the Oyster Box. After three nights, it was time to head back to Saint Anthony’s..... well that’s what we thought. So we left Durban for Newcastle on Friday 6th December at 11 am. The tomtom thought it would be a good idea to take us down the scenic route... Maman and I were quite happy at first as we got to see the townships and the surrounding mountains however after 45 mins of this, no sign of a town and no proper road (dirt tracks full of potholes) we got a little fed up... No matter what we put in the tomtom, it insisted we take more and more little roads which looked less and less like roads and more like unused dirt tracks! This went on for two hours...Nightmare! It became so bad we actually had to go back on ourselves and head back to Durban! Once we reached the hotel we had been staying in, it was 3 pm meaning we would have to do a big part of our journey back to Newcastle in the dark! Therefore we decided against it and stayed one more night in Durban. This unfortunately meant I couldn’t take Maman to Maria Ratschitz (she was leaving the following day – 8.12.) however instead we had a Kenyan braai with Father Matthew and his friend Paul!








Monkeys casually sitting along the Durban promenade!


Maman putting her feet in the Indian ocean!



As you can see, Maman and I had an amazing (and adventurous) two weeks together! I was very sad to see her go but at least she knows now where I’m staying and that I’m safe and very happy.
My next post will be in a couple of week’s time about my trip to Kruger National Park and Cape Town over Christmas and New Year! So I would like to take this opportunity to wish you all a very merry Christmas and New Year and also a big THANK YOU for reading my blog!

Lots of Love,

Isabel x



Thursday 21 November 2013

November in a nutshell

Hello Everyone!

Hope this post finds you all well! Here the weather is getting very hot and the children are still being their amazing selves so I cannot complain. School is almost finished and most of the older children are writing exams, which means they get to come back to Saint Anthony’s early (around 11 am). Although the care workers may not be too happy about this, I definitely am because it means I get to spend more time with them. With Christmas holidays just around the corner, I am making the most of their company before they go to their relatives or foster families for 6 weeks.

A few weeks ago, the children were also invited to Mr Theron’s annual Christmas Party. Mr Theron is the owner of a chain of big lodges dotted around South Africa and one of these is situated in Newcastle. Every year he invites the whole of Saint Anthony’s, including the staff to come to his lodge for a big feast. Every child received a big bag of presents as well as lots and lots of sweets. The staff also received a goodie bag J the kids were so happy (and super hyper!). Even Winnie the Pooh and Hello Kitty were able to attend!

Teenage girls dolled up for their Christmas Party

Winnie the Pooh and Hello Kitty with some of the girls


Children's desert buffer #1

Children's desert buffer #1


The staff loved them too ;)

We are all big kids at heart!


Over the last few weeks, I have been helping Slindo (oldest girl) a lot as she is currently sitting her Matrics (or as we know them, A Levels). She only has four exams left now and in general she seems very pleased with them which is a good sign. She also braided my hair and it took her a whole hour ! It was quite painful especially when it came to sleeping but I got used to it after a couple of days. I can’t believe this is what basically all women go through here when they get their braided or when they have weaves put in which is all the time!

Slindo hard at work!

One hour later :)



Slindo has also started backing her things because she will leaving the Home for good in December. I am sad to see her go as I get on so so well with her, she always looks out for me. However I am also happy for her because she gets to be with her sisters and have her independence. Nevertheless, I am going to miss her.

I also had my first visitor last weekend (14th – 17th November)! Christoph (my boyfriend), who is currently working in Cape Town, came to the Home for a long weekend. We played football with the older girls and spent some time with the toddlers who all called him “Malume” (uncle). They really warmed to him which was great to see J He was also put on the spot on Sunday at mass when he was asked to stand in front of the whole congregation (approximately 200 people) and introduce himself! I have a feeling all visitors from overseas have to do this so I better warn my mum who is visiting for two weeks on Tuesday (26th November).

On a much sadder note, the toddlers were all playing outside yesterday (Wednesday 20th November) when one of them, Nqobani, fell backwards and hit his head on some bricks. I was right next to him and saw what happened so I ran to him and picked him up to make sure he was ok. He cried for a few seconds but then he started fitting. His whole body was stiff including his head and eyes but he was shaking at the same time. His breathing was very heavy and he was foaming at the mouth. I ran back into the cottage where the care workers were. We laid him down on the bed where he then started to calm down but he was still very stiff. He only started to regain consciousness when Phendile (the care worker) put some water on his face. It took him a while for him to be able to hold himself up. This all happened in the space of 10 minutes. We then took him to hospital where he spent the night so that they could observe him. I really hope he gets to come home today (21st November). I will let you know how he is in my next post.

Remember if you have any questions or comments about my experiences, Saint Anthony’s or South Africa in general, please do not hesitate to write them in the comment box below!

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Isabel x